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“The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes Women Make With Men... and What to DO About It! Do YOU See Yourself In This List? Dating Dos & Don'ts. What A Woman Wants vs. What Men Need. COOKIE CUTTER GIRL,Pop Superhero,POWER OF PINK PROMOTION,PowerofPink.com


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The Ten Most Dangerous
Mistakes YOU Probably
Make With Men
And What To Do About It...


Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Women Keep Themselves From Living The Love Life Of Their Dreams— And How To Make Sure You Avoid Every One Of Them... by Christian Carter

MISTAKE #6: Relying On
Your Natural Ability To
Judge A Man's Character


      People aren't easy to figure out.

      Especially men.

      The last several years of my life I've spent hundreds of hours learning to understand people.

      I've studied peoples behavior, “inner psychology” and more specifically how they think and act when they're dating.

      From what I've seen, both men and women have their own secret ways of saying things.

      But you can only see these secret communications if you know what to look for.

      Women communicate with hints, body language, sarcasm, and flirting when they're first getting to know a man.

      They can either directly or indirectly let men know if they're open to something more serious.

      Men are different.

      Men generally communicate with sarcasm, humor, cockiness and other “indirect” displays of status.

      VERY RARELY will a man be able to honestly communicate to a woman whether or not he's ready or capable of developing a meaningful relationship.

      Aside from their sexual interests, men send very indirect signals about where they're at.

      If you don't know how to read through the signals men send, then you'll get the wrong message.

      Getting the wrong messages from men causes women more pain and heartache than any other issue around.

      You can avoid this pain if you learn to indentify a good man from a bad one.

MISTAKE #7: Expecting A
Relationship To Make You Happy


      A mistake I've seen women make is thinking a guy will change her life and make her happy and fulfilled.

      And sure, there are situations and relationships where this happens.

      But those are the exceptions, not the rule.

      Nothing says “Run!” to a man faster than hearing or sensing that a woman immediately wants him to take care of her.

      And the men who ARE looking for this kind of situation aren't exactly the most healthy, loving, nurturing people out there.

      Think, “controlling, macho, or serious Mom Issues!”

      So let me be clear...

      I think it's important that people help fulfill each other in their lives, whether it's dating, a relationship, whatever.

      But if a woman communicates that she's looking for a guy to take care of her, complete her, make her whole, and all that kind of stuff - it has a VERY negative effect on what the man will think of her.

      It doesn't have to be spoken by the woman either...

      If a woman thinks or feels this way, the man will see it and pick up on it, regardless.

      This is arguably the worst thing a woman can do early on when dating a man.

      So what can you do as a woman?

      You can get the man interested and involved in your life in a more “natural” way, where he'll be motivated to make you care about your happiness and fulfillment on his own.

      This is the only way it really works for people - male or female.

      Self-motivation is much stronger than external motivation.

      But you have to know how to create this situation with a man... and it rarely happens by accident.

MISTAKE #8: Trying To Convince
Him To Like You Or Love You


      What do most women do when they meet a man that they REALLY like... but he's just not that interested or isn't as serious?

      Right! They try to “convince” the man to feel differently.

      Well, I have news for you...

      YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A MAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

      Never, ever, ever.

      You cannot convince a man to feel differently about you with “logic and reasoning”.

      Think about it.

      If a man doesn't “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change that by being “reasonable” with him?

      But we all do it.

      Men are the worst at this by the way.

      They're always complimenting women who don't like them and buying them gifts.

      Women like the behavior sometimes, but it NEVER makes the woman like the man.

      She might enjoy what she gets out of it, but it doesn't change the way she FEELS about him.

      When a man just isn't interested, women will try and chase, compliment, convince and do their best to change his mind with logical and rational approaches.

      Bad idea. Another one that will never work.

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
What To Do In Each Type Of Situation


      A man has a clear idea of what he wants from a woman...

      And I don't mean just sex.

      I know, it might be hard to believe, but if you're out on a date with a man, he already has an idea of what he wants from you.

      And if you don't know HOW to find this out, and you just sit there looking at him and flirting, or trying things you think will make him want you, he won't help!

      If you don't know what to do in each situation, you'll probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting Help 

      This is the biggest mistake of all.

      This mistake keeps women from EVER having the kind of success and finding the kind of man and relationship that they truly want.

      I know, you don't like to make yourself look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.

      Hey, I've been there myself.

FOR MISTAKES #1-#5, READ WEDNESDAY'S BLOG!

P.S. Do one of your girlfriends a favor and FORWARD this article to them. It might be one of the best gifts you ever give them - a “new lease” on their love life!


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